What’s wrong with me?
I suppose it’s possible that I haven’t had enough caffeine today, and it’s making me cranky, but after I read this story about the e-mail flame sent by an NYU B-school professor, I found myself siding with the professor.
http://deadspin.com/5477230/nyu-business-school-professor-has-mastered-the-art-of-email-flaming
A student apparently complained to the professor by e-mail–upset that he wasn’t able to attend a class after arriving late–around an hour late. But, since it was the first class of the semester, and he was visiting all of the course he was considering that met during that time slot, he should have been allowed to sit in on the balance of the first class.
The professor responded by e-mail. “…get your s**t together.” The professor challenged his assumptions about whether it was appropriate (even on the first day of classes) to walk in an hour late. The professor suggested that just because the student couldn’t have known the professor’s policy regarding lateness, he was still expected to conduct himself according to certain standards. The professor pointed out that though he has no stated policies with respect to urinating on desks, for instance, there is still no tolerance for it.
I sort of hate to admit I come out pro-professor on this one. His response e-mail was a little harsh–but also right on, in my opinion. I hate to be such a stickler for decorum, but the professor is right–professionals should be responsible for their behavior and shouldn’t complain about the lack of consideration when they were–admittedly–terribly late.
I received 9 e-mails from lawyers on Saturday asking to be considered for jobs. Well, 9 resumes attached to e-mails. One included a brief cover letter that addressed me specifically. That was nice. Several just had sentence fragments. Two had no text whatsoever. I don’t need a fancy cover letter when potential candidates approach me. Even so, it is nice to see a concise and pleasant greeting. “Thank you for your consideration” goes a long way. I don’t ignore resumes from any potential candidate, but the way a person introduces themselves to me does make a difference in my overall evaluation. To paraphrase our NYU professor, there are lots of things that are hard to manage in a career. Politeness and decorum isn’t one of them, so it’s important to get that right.

